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Chapter 12: The Family

Learning Objectives

  • Understand the various family forms.
  • Describe attachment theory.
  • Identify different parenting styles.
  • Know the typical developmental trajectory of families.
  • Understand cultural differences in dating, marriage, and divorce.
  • Explain the influence of children and aging parents on families.
  • Know concrete tips for increasing happiness within your family.

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